Saturday, September 14, 2019

Very sad day






The PDX pride mommy writes:

I have very sad news.  Last night, we had to say goodbye to Tabby.  She was down to just under 6 lbs., had advanced dementia, and was falling off the places she chose to sleep.  Last night, she could barely get to her favorite recliner and then was very disoriented so she only stayed on her daddy's lap for a few minutes before coming in and climbing shakily onto my lap.  It was time.  We all said our goodbyes at home, then we harnessed her up for one last car ride.  She watched out the windows and knew where we were once we got to the vet, but then became disoriented again when we were carrying her into the building.  She fell asleep gently while air-kneading just before 10:30 pm, then was given the final shot and passed peacefully.  The above picture was taken while waiting for the vet to come in with the shots.  She looks worried because she was so disoriented that she didn't really know quite why I would be taking a picture of her there.

We brought her body home and buried her in the yard by her brother, Carbon.  The others got the chance to sniff her body and say goodbye once again if they wanted to.  The twins and Starla declined, but the others came over to pay their respects.  This was Shadow's first time dealing with death, and he still isn't quite sure what happened, but the others are helping him.  He gently touched her body with his paw, then lay down next to the box that held it.

Thank you for all the love you have shown our girl over the years.
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30 comments:

  1. SummerSeptember 14, 2019 at 10:11 AM

    This is a very sad day for us too. Long before I was even here, my human used to read about Tabby's visits, and she wanted a therapy cat so badly that she could take places. And so here I am. So you can see how important Tabby was to us. Lots of purrs to you all.

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  2. HollySeptember 14, 2019 at 10:16 AM

    So very sorry :(

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  3. Cats of wildcat woodsSeptember 14, 2019 at 12:27 PM

    That is so hard to see them get confused like that. You gave her one last gift by letting her go. Sending thoughts of sympathy in your loss.

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  4. Robyn and The (Mostly) Badass CatSeptember 14, 2019 at 1:15 PM

    I'm so sorry.

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  5. Memories of Eric and FlynnSeptember 14, 2019 at 3:11 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss.

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  6. As the World PurrsSeptember 14, 2019 at 6:19 PM

    I am sorry for your loss. Sending purrs.

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  7. The Island CatsSeptember 14, 2019 at 6:47 PM

    We are so very sorry. Sending you lots of comforting purrs and gentle headbutts.

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  8. Katie and The KatzSeptember 15, 2019 at 2:03 AM

    Sending love, hugs, comfort and many purrs...
    Katie and the Katz
    Psalm 36:6

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  9. SmudgeSeptember 15, 2019 at 3:34 AM

    Dad and I are so sorry for your loss. I only just now found you so we didn't know Tabby, but we can surely relate to what you've had to go through. Sending comforting purrs your way.

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  10. Fur EverywhereSeptember 15, 2019 at 4:51 AM

    I am so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you. She was a very lucky ladycat to have you and your love. Fly free, sweet girl <3

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  11. My Mind's EyeSeptember 15, 2019 at 5:30 AM

    I am very sorry for your loss of Dear Tabby....
    run pain free dear one
    Hugs Cecilia

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  12. Alastriona, The Cats and Dogs September 15, 2019 at 5:59 AM

    We are so very sorry for your loss of Tabby. Purrs of comfort and paws of sympathy from all of us here at Alasandra, The Cats & Dogs

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  13. meowmeowmansSeptember 15, 2019 at 7:25 AM

    We are so sorry. Thank you for loving Tabby so much, and for giving him a loving and wonderful life with you. Sending you gentle purrs and prayers.

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  14. ZoolatrySeptember 15, 2019 at 9:23 AM

    Soft purrs, gentle prayers for you and for your little one, may she forever be at peace. Just so you know, we've also sent to you, for Tabby a Rainbow Bridge image ...
    Ann, Zoey and Dougie Dog

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  15. catladymacSeptember 15, 2019 at 12:24 PM

    We are so sorry to read of beautiful Tabby's passing. We send purrayers and POTP to all who love her ! Fly free sweet girl.

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  16. Cara n CrewSeptember 15, 2019 at 12:39 PM

    We are so sorry for your loss. big purrs of comfort from all of us.

    minnie, hollie, sharpie, ditto, TL

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  17. Deziz WorldSeptember 15, 2019 at 1:34 PM

    She was so bootyful. We're so sorry fur your loss. We're sendin' hugs and purrayers.

    Luv ya'

    Dezi and Raena

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  18. pilch92September 15, 2019 at 4:35 PM

    I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful girl. XO

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  19. Colehaus CatsSeptember 16, 2019 at 4:09 AM

    Thank you so much for loving her and caring for her and most of all, being there for her when her time came. Sending hugs, love and all our best purrs.

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  20. Laila and Angel MinchieSeptember 16, 2019 at 6:03 AM

    We are so sorry for your loss of your beautiful Tabby. Hugs and comforting purrs to you.

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  21. SandeeSeptember 16, 2019 at 7:16 AM

    I've done this horrible ride and it's so painful. You were there to the end and that's the important part. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Big healing hugs. ♥

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  22. The Florida FurkidsSeptember 16, 2019 at 1:39 PM

    We're sending you purrs and prayers at this sad time. (((hugs)))

    The Florida Furkids and Mom Sharon

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  23. RubySeptember 16, 2019 at 9:01 PM

    I am so very sorry for your loss. I knows that she was very happy you were there, and helped her on her final journey.
    Sendin' lots of love, {{{hugs}}}, and AireZens your way. ♥
    Kisses,
    Ruby ♥

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  24. Peachy, Stippie, Angel Binky and GrannySeptember 17, 2019 at 3:45 AM

    So sorry of your loss. Fly free beautiful soul💗💗💗

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  25. John BellenSeptember 17, 2019 at 6:19 AM

    I am very sorry to learn of Tabby's death. I didn't know her, but every death is a loss to the world, and the death of a beloved pet is a grievous loss indeed. Godspeed, Tabby.

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  26. da tabbies o trout towneSeptember 17, 2019 at 9:24 AM

    Godspeed your journey to heaven Tabby; we are truly sorry and send hugs to mom, dad and the family you leave behind ♥♥♥♥♥

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  27. Angels Amber and Max DaWeenie and MomSeptember 18, 2019 at 5:56 PM

    I'm so sorry. Rest in pain-free peace, little one.

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  28. M DawsonSeptember 21, 2019 at 12:05 AM

    You were there for her at this important time, and although your heart may be breaking, I know she will have know you were there.

    I am so sorry you lost your wonderful girl.

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  29. Timmy TomcatOctober 15, 2019 at 9:22 AM

    Dear Tabby was met by the Angels over the Bridge and is young and bright and full of energy as she finds all the best spots to play, hunt and nap. Tabby we shall all meet again some day as it must be. Purrs

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  30. TimberLoveOctober 15, 2019 at 3:23 PM

    Safe travels kit-cat,

    Nuk

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